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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARyAt14zoQg[/youtube]

A Rhode Island high school painted over part of a students mural because, apparently, being straight is now politically incorrect. The painting was of the various stages of a man's life, the last panel being him with a wife and child.

Why this is even an issue is beyond me.


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:tisk:
Making a big deal out of nothing.
Don't these people have anything better to do?

Boggles my mind.

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Next: Unisex bathrooms

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As I recall, isn't that news anchor gay?

Anyway, I agree... why is this even a news story. Effin Rhode Island.

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Jesda wrote:Next: Unisex bathrooms

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Tell me why do we need to cater to people who are socially deviant? Homosexuality is not the norm no matter how hard the media pushes it. If we were designed to have same sex relations we would cease to be a society.

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We're constantly doing things that aren't "normal", we weren't designed to drive a hunk of metal at 60mph or take pills that cure illnesses our body couldn't do by itself, the list goes on.

If you want to do what your body was actually designed for, go strip naked and go live in some caves, and get off the Internet.

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This is why I hate people and hate America sometimes.

Stuff like this and pathetic racism really pisses me off, it really does.

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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:Tell me why do we need to cater to people who are socially deviant? Homosexuality is not the norm no matter how hard the media pushes it. If we were designed to have same sex relations we would cease to be a society.
Which society are we talking about here again? And let me speak with the engineers of humans since you seem to have their number, I got this bug called hiccups I need to report...

As far as the last image being painted over, stupid.
Every gay person today wouldn't be alive if it weren't for hetero couples. Maybe the super nerd with cyctic acne should complain about the mural too, because they didn't put a guy sitting in front of a computer playing games with a receding hairline and a large bottle of mountain dew...
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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:Tell me why do we need to cater to people who are socially deviant? Homosexuality is not the norm no matter how hard the media pushes it. If we were designed to have same sex relations we would cease to be a society.
You are a derping troll exercising his right to free speech. Therefore I'll invoke my right to free speech and suggest my fond desire for you to take your stupid someplace else.

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just paint a huge f*** rainbow behind the stupid thing and call it a gay. i mean, call it a day.

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It's really a shame to see this kind of stupidity. I don't care what your personal preference is on religion, sexual preference, or whatever - but don't try to tell me that my way of living is completely wrong and offensive, or ask for it to be covered up and erased. ESPECIALLY being straight.

Aren't there better things for the media to focus on? I guess not, because there isn't enough controversy as it is :tisk:
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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:Tell me why do we need to cater to people who are socially deviant? Homosexuality is not the norm no matter how hard the media pushes it. If we were designed to have same sex relations we would cease to be a society.
You are a derping troll exercising his right to free speech. Therefore I'll invoke my right to free speech and suggest my fond desire for you to take your stupid someplace else.
We're not going to start bashing each other over personal opinion on the topic. If all of you guys can't play nice, then the topic is getting locked. These kind of discussions are always doomed for failure anyways.

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It was a human interest piece more than news, see it again and the way it's getting covered...

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Yeah I see your point Dave. I had just breezed through it on my lunch break earlier.

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This is the first case of reverse ...uh...sexualityism?... that I've run across.

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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:Tell me why do we need to cater to people who are socially deviant? Homosexuality is not the norm no matter how hard the media pushes it. If we were designed to have same sex relations we would cease to be a society.
Homosexuality has been around for Millenia, even glorified in the greek and roman days. I don't see any indications of our society ceasing to be yet.
You ever been called ignorant before? Well then...
No matter who you are or what you represent, someone will be offended by it.

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I don't think its that its offensive that it portrays a man with wife and kids. Its likely that the ultimate message is suggesting that having a wife and kid is what a man should aspire to. What might offend a homosexual male is that if he does not prescribe to that as a life goal, then he is an outcast or perhaps a "social deviant" as someone so eloquently put it. The art itself is not what is "offensive" either. Its the venue. That is, a school should be neutral of any kind of discrimination or bias. That said, I think it is being blown out of proportion, assuming all parties involved are willing to convene and discuss a replacement or adjustment to the mural to be more sensitive to a wider range of people. If I were that artist and had a chance to redo it in light of this issue, I might try and seek out a message that also promotes equality in other areas of discrimination as well. Keeping in mind, for similar reasons that the mural might have been offensive to one group of people based on sexual preference, it might be seen as offensive to other groups based on gender discrimination or racial discrimination. I would think an artist wishing to convey a positive message would not want that message to get lost in socio-political controversy. Which is why artists should try to be considerate to their audience and venue (unless of course the point is to piss off a certain audience).

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why doesnt it have a woman growing up? from being a baby to having one - like thats all they can do.
now that, would be sexist.

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S133P3R wrote:why doesnt it have a woman growing up? from being a baby to having one - like thats all they can do.
now that, would be sexist.
One could imply from the original mural that the woman depicted in the last slide is a trophy to be won too....

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"you're offended by gay marraige?"
"NOOOO, I'm offended by MARRAIGE!"
[/barney stinson]

Paint a mural with hookers and blow, then compromise down to what they currently have.

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C-Kwik wrote:
S133P3R wrote:why doesnt it have a woman growing up? from being a baby to having one - like thats all they can do.
now that, would be sexist.
One could imply from the original mural that the woman depicted in the last slide is a trophy to be won too....
True


I'm not afraid to voice my opinion. I knew words like ignorant would be thrown at me. It truly is a shame when anyone shows opposition to gay people and of their views/lifestyle they are belittled to be an uneducated moron. I certainly am not a homophob or a member of the Westboro baptist church judging people as if I am GOd and screaming hatred towards any homosexual I see. I still believe in wrong and right unlike most of America and will not allow words like "politically correct" be in my dictionary. If homosexuals can voice their opinion loudly so can I. I'm not here to cause a fight with anyone on the internet. Especially the niconauts. After watching the news coverage I couldn't believe how this innocent mural was seen as offensive, and that the 17 yr old apologized for no wrong done. I imagine it was the school trying to cover their own a** and prevent any lawsuits when they asked for the last part to be erased.

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Gay agenda:
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Have faith, be attacked for stupidity. Disagree with homosexuality, be attacked for stupidity.

Great game we have here.

Guess what...Atheists can disagree with those of faith and not have to be ***holes about it. You can disagree with homosexuality and not be a hater. In our current society those labels, along with racist, are thrown out immediately. Tough s***. He's some tissues.

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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:
I'm not afraid to voice my opinion. I knew words like ignorant would be thrown at me. It truly is a shame when anyone shows opposition to gay people and of their views/lifestyle they are belittled to be an uneducated moron. I certainly am not a homophob or a member of the Westboro baptist church judging people as if I am GOd and screaming hatred towards any homosexual I see. I still believe in wrong and right unlike most of America and will not allow words like "politically correct" be in my dictionary. If homosexuals can voice their opinion loudly so can I. I'm not here to cause a fight with anyone on the internet. Especially the niconauts. After watching the news coverage I couldn't believe how this innocent mural was seen as offensive, and that the 17 yr old apologized for no wrong done. I imagine it was the school trying to cover their own a** and prevent any lawsuits when they asked for the last part to be erased.
I'm not afraid to voice my opinion either, it is truly a shame when anyone shows opposition to black people and their thug lifestyle that they are called "ignorant" and "wicked stupid" as well. (see what i did thar)
Why are you opposing someone's lifestyle choice? What IS your opinion btw... do you think they should all just keep quiet and go back into the closet and forget they ever happened...how would you pidgeonhole homosexuals into society? They have to fit somewhere, you just can't call them "social deviants" and shove them into a dark corner...can't have that.
Truth talk, i did not watch the video. HAH.

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It's pretty silly to hate someone for something they were born with.

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VQpwrdSE-R wrote:
I'm not afraid to voice my opinion. I knew words like ignorant would be thrown at me. It truly is a shame when anyone shows opposition to gay people and of their views/lifestyle they are belittled to be an uneducated moron. I certainly am not a homophob or a member of the Westboro baptist church judging people as if I am GOd and screaming hatred towards any homosexual I see. I still believe in wrong and right unlike most of America and will not allow words like "politically correct" be in my dictionary. If homosexuals can voice their opinion loudly so can I. I'm not here to cause a fight with anyone on the internet. Especially the niconauts. After watching the news coverage I couldn't believe how this innocent mural was seen as offensive, and that the 17 yr old apologized for no wrong done. I imagine it was the school trying to cover their own a** and prevent any lawsuits when they asked for the last part to be erased.
VQ, the reason people jumped down your throat is because you casually tossed out an offensive expression traditionally used by homophobes ("socially deviant") That is as provocative as identifying african american people with the n-word. On a forum like this, you are judged by what you write, so in the future, may I suggest you try to choose your words more carefully.

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Jesda wrote:Gay agenda:
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I actually like that show. But I'm a Danielle fan.

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C-Kwik wrote:I don't think its that its offensive that it portrays a man with wife and kids. Its likely that the ultimate message is suggesting that having a wife and kid is what a man should aspire to. What might offend a homosexual male is that if he does not prescribe to that as a life goal, then he is an outcast or perhaps a "social deviant" as someone so eloquently put it. The art itself is not what is "offensive" either. Its the venue. That is, a school should be neutral of any kind of discrimination or bias.
I'm a straight guy who doesn't want a wife and kids either. I'm also a non-Christian who did school Christmas parties and a non-Wiccan who did Halloween school parties. I did Easter parties too but I don't believe in Jesus or resurrection.
I also hate football, and we did college football-themed activities in grade school.

The mural depicts the stages of life, and getting married and producing offspring is an extremely common stage of social and human development.



People aren't really offended by this. They're seeking out things to pretend to be potentially offended by and making noise about it to feel important. It's like a baby that cries because the mother walks away from the crib. It isn't genuine physical distress. It's a desire for attention.

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Jesda wrote:

People aren't really offended by this. They're seeking out things to pretend to be potentially offended by and making noise about it to feel important. It's like a baby that cries because the mother walks away from the crib. It isn't genuine physical distress. It's a desire for attention.
I agree. I think it's much ado about nothing. This is art, people. The mural is simply a piece of art representing one artist's vision of the progression of life. Those condemning it simply because it might be exclusionary of other possible life scenarios are terribly misguided. It's not like she's openly condemning every alternative life style, race, or creed. I'm also offended by the school administration for letting it become an issue in the first place.

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Jesda wrote:People aren't really offended by this. They're seeking out things to pretend to be potentially offended by and making noise about it to feel important. It's like a baby that cries because the mother walks away from the crib. It isn't genuine physical distress. It's a desire for attention.
This.

Further, what would the offended party rather have seen in its place? If you dont want to offend a single person, the only thing that could be substituted for a hetero married couple with child in the cycle of life is a tombstone. But then you have offended Vampires, so you still lose.


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