LOL you sound like me back then. HIDs and audi lights and the body kit.
So for HIDs you can buy some from DDM tuning and it sounds like you want 6000k HIDs. Idk whether you want 35W or 55W but ill leave that up to you.
For the stillen body kit, it is recommended that you take it to a body shop to get it fitted/molded and painted.
For rims, I can hook you up with some 5:AD rims. You can check out the lineup at
http://www.jpmotor.net/ and my car is in the gallery section.
I had LED strips under my headlights that I got from oznium so that it looks like the audi style leds. It looked nice, but I recently took it off because it started to look too ricey and cheesy.