I've talked to several dealers in Southern California and they can order me whatever I want. That's what they said at least. I don't trust them any further than I can throw them.....so maybe they're all full of nonsense.
When it comes down to it, it's silly for me to get the audio package.....so I'm just getting convenience. It's still up in the air if I will lose bluetooth, but I can't imagine it wold stay there after ditching the head unit.
PAC makes an adapter that works with Alpine 2005+ head units to tap into steering wheel controls:
http://www.crutchfield.com/S-X...WIALP
Works with Alpine, Kenwood and JVC from what I can tell. I have a good shopl local, so they should be able to make this all work.