I have no idea about the heavier oil, But I would think that's a "Snake oil" theory.
To prove that's is the KS for sure you can read this old thread:
zerothread/150218
The last thing you could probably do is replace the ECM, Because you have replace almost ever other thing I can think of.
But you car feels the same after 20 min after a hot soak and a cold start? In laymen term you car always feels the same no matter what after 20 min?