According to the wiring diagram for an 03 sedan, I'm seeing that you have the Bose amp and then a separate amp for the sub. I actually see 5 wires. I'm guessing the letters in the diagram correspond to wire colors so here it goes. G/W is the amp on/off lead, R is for something labeled B+, then W is input +, B is input -, and another B is ground. Those are the order of the wires from right to left in the diagram, but the input - wire is the inner of the B wires. Hope that helps. Here's a link to the diagram, its on page 14.
http://www.nicoclub.com/FSM/G35/Sedan/2003/av.pdf