Further update.... I found the page I was looking for about o2 sensors:
http://members.pcug.org.au/~jdeakins/facts.html
Quoted from there:
"For NTK Oxygen sensors:the first letter refer to the type of sensor - O = Oxygen.the second letter refers to the technology the sensor is based on - T = Titania and Z = Zirconia. The two different technologies are not compatible.the third letter "A" or "D" refers to the thread size "A" = 18 mm thread (needs a 22 mm socket) "D" = 12 mm thread (needs a 17 mm socket)So it looks to me as though the R32 GTR is the only Skyline with Titania sensors.The sensor itself will have a three character code (like D2F) on the sensor and another code on the nut. The code on the nut is the batch number and is not much use to you. The code on the sensor is the important one.
With Titania plugs:Black is Reference (Out)Red is Reference (In) and Heater (+)White is Heater (-)Output is 0 to 1 volts.
With Zirconia plugs:Black is Signal (Out)White is HeaterWhite is HeaterOutput is 0.1 to 0.9 volts.reference: LambdaSensor.com site
Note 1: I had originally said the R33 GTR (and 260RS Stagea) sensors were Titania. Simon from Skylines Australia sorted it all out and gave me the correct information. Apologies for any confusion. Thanks for the feedback Simon. Also, you'll see that the sensor Simon identified is the same one used for the N15 etc. They should be easy to get. If you need a longer lead, NTK have a sensor with the same plug and a 1820mm lead which may be the same sensor. It's part number OZA446-E27, and it is fitted to the 300ZX. If anyone finds out if they're interchangable, let me know.
LambdaSensor.com sell Bosch part number 0 258 003 256 for Zirconia based Skylines. It's apparently intended for the Nissan Micra, but fits the Skyline. They export from the UK to Australia, and can ship a universal Titania sensor for around 70 pounds including shipping.
The Ford EA to EL Falcon uses a sensor which is apparently compatible with some Nissans, although the plug may not be. Its part number is OZA23-D2 so we know it is based on Zirconia. There is an ACA part - ROX207 that apparently also works. If you have fitted one to your Nissan and it works, let me know which engine you have (and its year), whether the cable was long enough, whether the plug was compatible and any comments you have. I'll update the table.
Bosch part number 13385 looks like it might be a contender as an R32 GTR rear O2 sensor replacement. It has a square plug and was fitted to 300ZXs. Its supposed to be compatible with Nissan part number 22690-21P11, which was fitted to the Z31 VG30T engine from April 1987. It's Titania, 17" (430mm) and has the square plug."
So, the original one in my car that wasn't working right was a three wire with red white and black. That sensor was good though, I am sure. I have since bought a turbo from an rb25, and it has an identical sensor with to what came from my car, except that it has two white wires and one black. I know that my motor is pretty old, and the ecu code dictates it actually didn't come from a skyline, plus with it being redtop eccs, I want my stock narrowband to work. I am going to try this one and see what happens.