Afraid of commitment?

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MainEvent212
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well, me and a friend (girl) were havin a convo. and while i personaly, am enthralled by the idea of gettin to be married to/live w/ my significant other (not acutally happening, but we always talk bout it cuz we like to think it will) i was under the impression that the normal guy thing is to be afraid of it...i am confused...she says that her guy friends arent like that...but it may be cultural for the most part (she is muslim) i donno...enlighten me guys

what are your thoughts on commitment?would you marry your girl?


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They come and go. People change. Some people grow apart.

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Most guys are afraid of commitment... after all if you're a good husband you'll only be with one girl for the rest of your life. You gotta think about if you're ready to get married and if you have other plans first. And if she's the one for you, she'll wait through whatever you gotta do (to a certain extent of course.)

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Touchdown038 wrote:Most guys are afraid of commitment... after all if you're a good husband you'll only be with one girl for the rest of your life. You gotta think about if you're ready to get married and if you have other plans first. And if she's the one for you, she'll wait through whatever you gotta do (to a certain extent of course.)


:WerdI agree with the whole people come and go thing, I know this all too well, but if she's 'the one' you can rest assured that she'll be there through bascially anything.

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You'll reach an age where the benefits to being with one person outweigh the (supposed) "fun" of playing the field.

It's a good deal with the right person - And while it takes work, all good things do.

A real man can make a commitment and stick to it.

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Uh oh mainevent hes takin shots at y0 manhood. What you gon' do bout it son?;)

MainEvent212
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w/e dude, i'm all about commitment...it's alll good man

i got security like linus :ylsuper

yeswepromise
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no worries aboot commitment.

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I like to have fun and play the field now, but when the time is right, I am ready to committ. I actually am looking forward to that time.

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When you meet the right person, there should be no fear of commitment. And if either of you feel fear about commitment, then don't jump into it. Marriage was the last thing on my mind when I first met my wife. But it didn't take long to figure out we were the ones for each other.

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Im prolly getting married next year.


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