I'd follow this, it takes 40 connections to complete the test:
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You'll be putting your DMM on resistance mode, and you'll be using the various polarities it defines.
So for instance, for the top row, you'll put positive on "3" or the 'd' pin, and then put negative to each of the "1" pins; 1,2,3,4,5,6. Then you'll put the negative on the "3" or or the 'd' pin, and put positive to each of the "1" pins. Repeat for the other rows.
The polarity is important because you're working with transistors, which should only allow current flow in one direction.
DMM =
Digital
Multi -
Meter , which is opposed to an analog meter (with a needle). Multi-meter refers to the way you can switch modes to measure, AC Voltage, DC Voltage, Current, Resistance, etc. All you need is a meter that can read resistance.