For #2,
http://www.bgfindashop.com call and verify service desired is available.
For the filter, gasket and bolts
http://www.infinitipartsusa.com
You want to drop the pan, inspect the magnetic bolt and pan, clean each, and replace the screen filter before the mechnical fluid exchange. If you use the BG machine, time it as it uses the transmission's pump and thus the health (wear) can be deduced.
Most of the Q45 owners run M1 ATF with 6 oz. of Lube Guard Red.
As an alternative, ask a SnapOn jobber who has the Sun machine.
Don't ignore your PS fluid either.