i'm replying separately for your OD light... it may be your speed sensor on the transmission. does your tach work as well as your speedometer?
try getting it past 50mph... if it doesn't, you will know it'll bounce at around 50-55mph =FAIL SAFE MODE
i had a later model quest, but the speed sensor wasn't working on my vehicle when i looked up my particular problem
it should have set a code 14, but it's easy to remove & see if you can spin that gear by hand... my problem was that it got corroded enough to not spin at all

eventhough the wiring to the plug/vehicle speed sensor was good
refer to EF & EC 103 one bolt holds it into the transmission & there's an o-ring around it so you can "wiggle" it off and test it
um edit: don't yank it off too hard like the following guy:
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thank goodness i used a little pb blaster on mine before i tackled it