For the headlights, check the fuses. You can look for a replacement Bose HU on eBay (it will run you approx. $60) or check out Carlos' advice on replacing the Bose head unit with a different HU from other Nissan vehicles (
http://www.fuzzycats.com/j30_diy.htm, look for "Bose head unit replacement"). I highly doubt that the cruise control is an easy fix. If you can do without it, it's probably not worth the cost of fixing it. I think you would need to run some diagnostics at the very least, and unless you have the right equipment (ODBII scanner etc.,) you'll have to take it to a dealer. Dealers and/or mechanics in my experience actually charge money just to diagnose an electrical problem, let alone fixing it. As always, a good start might be to look at the J30 Factory Service Manual.
Also, keep in mind that when you are asking for help on the forum, it helps to be very specific. Saying "the cruise control doesn't work" is pretty vague, so it would be hard for someone to help you on that based solely on your description.