I think I'd still try to hold out for a used unit. I'm getting cheap(er) in my old age though. It looked like quite a few were available on
http://www.car-part.com. These are the two I would probably check on first. The 1993 model would be your best choice, since it was the last year that had that style of actuator, and supposedly Infiniti had changed to more robust seals by then.
I just noticed something... Your part number matches up with a non TCS car. My actuator has p/n 47600-60U00, but if I search for a replacement on Infiniti's parts web site, it says it's part number was superseded by part 47600-60U01, which is the part number you said is on your actuator.
I would go to Infiniti's parts website and see what part number is recommended by entering your VIN.
http://parts.infinitiusa.com/ then click the "PARTS" box under the picture of the Q50.
I'm not sure if the part is actually available through Infiniti. If you do go the new route, I'd check with
http://www.orderinfinitiparts.com - they're just up the road in Charlotte, so you'll get it faster than from AZ.
I found the email today looking through there... I don't use the AOL account much anymore. Anyway, I just sent an email to you.