ok the starter looks like this(hope it works)
if you are standing in front of your car it will be on the left,
it's pretty tricky to find, look where you're oil filter is, now look back (towards the firewall and down, there should be one small cylinder attached to one larger cylinder (as in the picture),
it will be on the left side(once again from the point of view of standing in front of you car) of the transmission
here's how to replace it
1. disconnect the negative terminal of your battery (always!!)2. disconnect the ground found on the end of the smaller cylidner3. disconnect the solenoid4. now there are 2 main bolts holding the starter in place, the one on the left is accesible from the bottom, so jack you're car up and get under the car5. it will be tight(

) best bet is to really spray it down with wd-40, it is a long bolt so it may take a while6. to get the other bolt i found it helpful to disconnect the 2 thick coolant hoses that go into the firewall( make sure to have a oil pan under your car so it doesn't spill everywhere)7. you should be able to see the 2nd bolt, wd-40 and a good breaker bar will take that thing off8. this part requires some help, have one person get underneath the car and another on top, this will help to guide it in, remeber to put it in the same way as it was before you took it off9screw the bolts in10.conncet coolant hoses, reconnect solenioid, reconnect ground, reconnect battery11. should be fine now