For the headlight inoperative message, glancing over the FSM briefly it appears that the headlight sensor grounds one pin on the diagnostic display.. You could just undo that wire so it never grounds, or maybe theres been something else done. As far as I know everyone else just lives with it... Using a resistor probably isnt the most efficient way of doing things..
also as far as i know no one has wired parking lights and fog lights, but I know it obviously can be done.
All of the answers are in the FSM at
www.nicoclub.com/FSM If you know how to read a wiring diagram you can do it