Just as blittle mentioned, I too have been driving around with my 4WAS and stability control lights on for some time.
I think I have logged about 20k to 21k miles on my car with these lights on. The bulk of those miles were driven on I95 at highway speeds. Since the lights have been on, I haven't had too many issues with the performance of the car. On several occasions, I noticed that the steering wheel was slightly off during my driving, but after stopping the car and turning it off overnight, it would always go back to center and drive in the correct position the next day. Even with these lights on, I have pushed the car extremely hard quite a few times, (hard pulls from a stop, excessive breaking, hard dives into curves and corners, and pushing 135+ on the highway) and the car has always responded without any hiccups. Lol, but I would always go back and say how stupid I was for doing those things when I don't really know the circumstances that are really keeping the rear end together at this point. The one thing I have noticed is that I'm starting to get "some" uneven tire wear on my rear wheels, but that could be because I haven't had the alignment done in over a year.
Anyways, tomorrow I plan to have the car looked at and see if i can get a proper diagnosis. I'm not feeling too good about spending $5k to $7k on car repairs, especially out of pocket. I'm sitting on about 126k HARD driven miles. Depending upon the outcome of this diagnosis, I may find myself parting ways with my Black Raven. I love this big black bird, but it'll be hard to shell out that much money and not know if this problem will resurface again later on down the road.