As far as I know, the final drive is the same for autos and standard. It's the tt models that have the higher gearing.
The differential will not bolt in. It either needs 6-bolt output shafts from a 95+ j30, or 5-bolt axles from a pre-95 j30. Or if you can also get the axles from the 300zx, you can rig up something like this:
http://www.gbauto.net/crzycav86/axle_swap.htm
The the fact that you have a non-abs car will not affect anything with the swap.. Actually, I think if you had an abs car, the abs would end up being disabled(in the rear at least).
I don't know of these bushings you speak of. There are bushings that go on either side of the differential, near the input shaft. If you lost those, you can replace them with some washers.
As for the rear cover, you'll need to swap the cover from your s13 differential over to the 300zx one. The reason being the bolts that go through the subframe are too wide to pass through. They are also spaced out a little too much.
Basically, to get it to work on your car, you need 6 bolt output shafts from a vlsd, or 5 bolt j30 axles(if you're lucky, you can find them at a junkyard for a hundred bucks or so).
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