Yep, that's exactly what I'm saying. AFAIK, you need the Touring Package to have the dual occupant memory system. If you don't have this package, and the salesperson said you have this feature, you've been lied to.
Deluxe Touring Package Key Features
- Direct Adaptive Steering™
- Auto-dimming outside mirrors with reverse tilt-down feature
- Around View® Monitor with Moving Object Detection and Front and Rear Sonar System
- Maple Wood Accents
- View Additional Features
- Power tilt and telescopic steering column
- Dual occupant memory system for driver's seat, mirrors and steering wheel settings, linked to individual Intelligent Keys
I take it you don't have the three buttons as shown in this picture.
BTW, the setup button on your touchscreen is for your audio system, so I have no idea why you'd even mention it.