when I'm driving in manual mode, that's when the engine comes alive

From a take off in 1st all through the gears (I only have 5spd auto) the M is really fun to drive. Driving in auto mode, the car still has guts but not as much as in manual mode. For example, with traction control off and in manual mode, I can do 0-60 runs at 5.3 to 5.5 seconds consistently.
As far as the plenum spacer (I went with the 5/16 spacer from Motordyne) and yes, there is very noticeable HP. I think it's the best bang for the buck...from that platform, I only added the z-tube and Mrev2 (modified lower plenum) and kept the stock air box....
I think our cars really improve once the exhaust system is opened up...
what other mods do you plan on doing?
Seymore4 may have more insight for you regarding your tuning inquiries...he's very knowledgable but not sure if he's tuned the new M's or not...