I got the dipstick, and started this post looking for the filter and found it in the meantime.
My trans fluid needs to be changed, lifetime fill is a sick, cruel joke.
Raybestos p/n 515785
RE7R01A manual here:
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1t5wuSR ... hWT9L/view
just in case a search shows this post here are parts for the trans:
I don't even see it mentioned on the how-to page.
If anyone knows any way easier to find or a better way to look up the filter please reply. Thanks.