OKAY !!! I am 99% sure I found the rattle!
It looks like the front bushings on the subframe are gone. See video below.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yH7zDTfuXuA
I watched a Youtube video by TRQ and they removed the subframe to replace 4 bushings (2 in front and 2 in back).
Is this doable (TRQ uses a hydraulic lift - I don't have one)? It doesn't look too hard, but I am concerned that when I remove the subframe that the other frame on the car will move out of place.
What I would like to do is leave the rear wheels down and jack up the front and use 2 jack stands to hold the front up ( near the front door each side).
There should be plenty of room under the car to do work. I am just mainly concerned about removing the frame and something else pops out of place.
Also... I see the lower control arms are attached to the subframe. I know it rattles, but is it Ok if my daughter continues to drive the car for a few more weeks ( while I order parts)?
The roads here are smooth, so I don't see it rattling too much.
1)Are the Dorman bushings on RockAuto any good? or is there a better brand?
2) Would you also order 4 new bolts that go through the bushings? I have no idea if the bolts might be worn from rattling.
3) Is there any trick - like I could find a 1/2 inch thick rubber washer and pull the front 2 bolts out and insert the rubber washer and put the bolts back through?
Anything else I should be aware of?