Okay, here we go haha. I'll post in order of what you said.
-Radiator hoses & cap: Even if they feel fine, I usually replace the major coolant hoses when I buy a used car just to know they have been maintained and are good. Good news is they are amazingly cheap aftermarket parts for our B15s and both upper, lower hoses, and the cap can be had for less than $20 from Rockauto (link below). I have always used Gates hoses, and have never had any issues with any, but Dayco is also good.
http://www.rockauto.com/
-Rear crossmember?- Are they talking about the rear suspension crossmember? If so, then I wonder what the hell happened to the car that would damage it. The rear beam suspension is one of those "life-of-the-car" parts that rarely ever needs to be changed. There aren't any bushings in the rear subframe system, expect the link between the two beams. The link between the two rear beams that is kind of junky that people swap out with this, since it's adjustable and can stiffen the rear beam:
http://www.b15u.com/tdmi-kuos-garage/29 ... 2-3-a.html
Other than the rear beams, they might be talking about the rear of the engine crossmember (cradle). 2J racing and Rob from the B15U forums have made sets of bushings that are better(stiffer) than stock and decrease movement of the member to increase shift feel. Here are a couple links:
http://www.b15u.com/members-services/24 ... ipped.html
Can't find 2J's link right now...
-Struts: It's getting a lot harder to find sets of Nismo shocks/springs lately, but there are some and they're around 500-800 when they do pop up. They lower a bit, so you may not want that. I would just look for replacements on Rockauto, or Ebay and get a set of KYB GR2 struts since they are OEM quality and offer a great ride, though you would have to swap out the springs and mounts (if you're not buying new). New dust boots can be bought at any auto store for around $10.
-Rack/pinion: The leak from the inner tie rod area where it connects to the rack? That would probably be a bad seal on the rack. I don't know how proficient you are with auto repair/ mechanical stuff, but you could replace just the seals and can get the seals from an auto store or Rockauto (Get Gates seals, if so). If you'd rather replace the whole rack, A-1 Cardone (Rockauto, again) makes re-manufactured racks that include new tie rods for about $260.
Spark Plugs- I used/use NGK Iridium plugs, and also Double Platinum (PLFR5A-11) and they both worked well, and really couldn't feel much difference between the two.
Did you buy and inspect the car at a Nissan dealership, or private? The rear member thing sounds a bit suspicious... All these parts are pretty easy to source at any auto parts store, and I threw out Rockauto a lot because I used to work at one of their distribution centres and prefer these brands.
Anyway, welcome to the Japanese auto and the B15 Sentra world! Let me know if you need clarification or anything else!