Help!!!

Does anyone know about this problem?
My Pathfinder started to drive very badly, It's not going into higher gears and the follow major issue is no reverse and No Neutral. I can't shift into these gears and the car started to act up it was having problems of morning sickness as well.

Are these problems associated with the solenoids? Does anyone know which one are problem ones?
Is this another problem?

won't shift into reverse or neutral, isn't shifting to 3rd and 4th gear.
What to look for and what should I do?

Changed Tranny oil every 50k and also changed out the shifting solenoids because of morning sickness a year ago.