Hi Guys - well i actually got my problem solved - i got a 2001 maxima maf and swapped it - i disconnected the Negative battery termianl for about half an hour before i started to do the swap - when i was done hooked up the battery and revved the engine and immediately noticed a difference (didn't have to do the idle air relearning procedure)- the engine was actually willing to spin high - it purrs like a kitten at idle but roars at full throttle (i guess the flowmaster series 50 muffler helped with that).
So i had terrible acceleration issues - in all i changed my fuel filter, cleaned the throttle body and then changed the MAF - each helped a bit but nothing like the MAF sensor change - it feels like 100HP was injected into my pathfinder i kid you not - i can't believe i ran for so long having such poor performance - i had a grin on my face for about 2 hours after the first time i took it for a spin

and even at 182,000 Mls mines is going strong as well - im amazed that at 182,000 miles i have no transmission issues - other cars that i've had that were automatics always gave trouble once they hit above 110,000 miles - (admitting they were 2 fords and 1 mazda) but this nissan has no issues with the transmission - no slipping, grinding,jerking or leaking. (knock on wood)
The only thing i have is a slight delay (it's almost like lag) right off idle when u want to accelerate - its nothing much but u only notice it if ur moving slowly in traffic and u slowly put ur foot on the gas but if you hit the gas any harder it leaps forward saying "hey - time to run" - but thanks jpedderson - i'll take a look at my cats and the linkage at the top of the engine (is it those 2 circular things that have the cable attached to them?) just making sure before i oil the wrong thing.
SO guys and gals

- if you're having trouble with accleration issues - especially where you can only mash the gas to about 75% to get the best (lousy) performance i really suggest checking your MAF - what led me to this was the fact that my OBDII scanner was reading System Bank 1 and 2 as too lean. Maybe this helps out others here in the forum - also when i changed the MAF i put in a new Air Filter - just to be sure. And changing the fuel filter and cleaning yuor throttle body helps as well.