With all due respect, it probably is
By head work I mean a noisy valvetrain. Basically the upper half of the engine. I've heard some of these engines have ticks etc, noisy valvetrains after age. Not a big deal, unless it's erratic or very loud. If your wife can't even hear it, it's probably nothing. It's OK, just be sure to maintain oil changes. Mine was always pretty quiet, got slightly louder before she blew, but at 195 with MANY redlines, I'm cool with it.
Also, the connectors are best separated with a precise flathead. Depress the clip with appropriate tools, (pliers, etc) and use the screwdrive to slide between and gently twist. Work your way AROUND the connector and don't just pry one spot. Some plugs take many twists. Clean them up and put some dielectric grease in there.