According to the
'04 manual, there's three different rims, one for each of the XE, SE, and LE trims.
All three will have the same bolt pattern, so regardless, they'll fit on. XE and SE are 16" rims, LE had 17" rims. The SE and LE rims had a 20mm offset, the XE had a 50mm offset.
To be honest, I don't know much about the XE, but I always thought all models were available in either 2WD or 4WD. So whatever he means by "4WD rims", I have no idea. Maybe he's equating the XE to 2WD rims for some reason?