Thanks for the replies all. My 93 does, in fact, have a drain plug. It is simply a hex bolt and looks a lot like the one at
http://www.cardomain.com/ride/335521/3 (in fact, I think the maxima in the article uses the same transmission). I guess I have never seen a transmission drain bolt that was not inverted and with the head so thin.
I am kind of paranoid about my transmission because it was bought used (so I don't know how the previous owner treated the car), and I want to extend the life of my J30 transmission as long as I can.
Again, thanks for everyone's help.