So here's where I am ...
This is what 120,000 miles of 3000-4000 mile oil changes look like.
The valve cover was an adventure to get off, but I was working on unfamiliar territory. The underside sealing edge has a lot of evidence where and why it was leaking as does the surface of the head. They really should have changed the design of the sealing edge. It would have been so simple.
Getting this side back on obviously can be difficult, so the plan is to use some old iron techniques to accomplish this ( Unless someone has some to offer)
Meanwhile it's time to change the plugs. More reports to follow. Thanks everyone for your support