You are right...I'm at the point where she needs some rehab.
I did a rehab a couple years (50k miles) ago (under plenum, belts/hoses, suspension). The only thing I couldn't stomach was pulling out the diff to change out the subframe bushings. She's ready for new shocks, upper links, bushings. She's on her 3rd set of shocks, 2nd set of upper links and 4th set of bushings all around. Heater fan motor talks to me when it's cold, belts/hoses, new bearings in the idler pulleys.
I've considered trying my hand at rebuilding the transmission. $375 for a master kit...worst case I bolt it back together and trade for a nissan reman.
She also needs new leather on the steering wheel and driver's seat...everything else inside is still in pretty good shape.
She's not my daily driver any more so she sits in the garage most of the time now. My son and I looked at a "parts car" 280ZX last weekend...we may be growing a wild hair, we're talking about transferring the guts of the Q *(VH45DE/RE4R03A/R200V) into a Z. We're looking for a Z body for an EV, but it's so tempting to wedge a VH45DE into a Z. We're planning an EV in a 240/260/280.
Take a peak at the future...
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