My 2003 M45 (purchased brand-new, so single owner, and overkill-maintained) is at about 176k miles right now - about the same miles as the one you are looking at.
Still running well, but it has its problems ...
The oil consumption is slowly going up - more than I would like. It used to be about 1/3 quart every 1750 miles, but I am now adding nearly a quart in that same mileage.
If it gets worse - and I think it will continue to do so - I will need to think about (a) replacing the engine because I would love to keep the car longer or (b) take a deep breath, get rid of it and move on to a current generation car.
I have the funds for a Q70L socked away ... but, at that price point, a Tesla S also starts looking interesting. My dang commute is now so horrible that I would love to get into car-pool lanes, and I'd rather get a full electric than a hybrid (was not too impressed by the M35H loaner Frontier Infiniti gave me recently).
BTW, my car has two other bigger problems that I need to also fix. Of course, any car this old is bound to have its share of squeaks and rattle ... these don't bother me per se.
First is the the driver seat. It moves back and forth, but raising it is a problem - only one side rises due to some broken part. Been meaning to take the seat off and see what it is and if I can replace it myself.
Second is a recent leak in the exhaust assembly (although it passed a smog test) - needs the left-wide manifold to be replaced. This would be the second occurrence at the same spot, I think, and it ain't cheap - well, at the dealer!
Anyway, the big question: would I buy my current car from somebody else if I didn't already own it? And, the answer is, unfortunately, probably NO.
Z