"Spraying" meant nitrous oxide, nevermind.
No reason to use a colder plug in a stock application.
The "5's" are stock heat range whether it's a SR20, VH45, or VG3XDE(TT) [in NGK nomenclature]
The oil on the plug threads indicates oil was seeping past the plug well o-rings in the valve cover.
If one of the coil packs' resistance is higher than the others, it may mave been damaged in removal/installation.
I *still* would look for a slight crack in the porcelain part of the plugs, (on my way to the parts store to obtain the correct plug.)
Edit: Amen! to what Daedalus said.