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i just found out i dont have A BABY KNOW MORE took DNA TEST TURNS OUT IT AINT MINE THATS ALL I HAD. WUT TO DO. MY MIND IS SO MEST UP. HAS ANYONE BEEN THRUE THIS


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Kinda Sucks But...Your Choice If You Want To Raise It.

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dickie
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go make a new one?

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Id probly ditch the girl for cheatin. do oit once, do it again. Find a real girl and bang out real hard and pop some kids out. Is this the kind of girl that I'll see on Jerry Springer to find out who the actual dad is?

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youre 19. how about be relieved you dont have to deal with it, dump the girl, have fun for another 6 years and then consider tying yourself down to a mortgage, a wife and THEN a kid.

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Mudvayne wrote:i just found out i dont have A BABY KNOW MORE took DNA TEST TURNS OUT IT AINT MINE THATS ALL I HAD. WUT TO DO. MY MIND IS SO MEST UP. HAS ANYONE BEEN THRUE THIS
This could be good news depending on your perspective, which you didn't share with us. IF this was your wife that was pregnant with another man's child, I can see it being messy. If she's a GF, perhaps it's best you found out about her infidelity before marrying her. This way, you are not legally obligated to pay her child support, which can be financially devastating.

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Pour some gasoline, light a match, and carelessly drop it on that bridge and burn it. Sanitize yourself of that ish man.

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Well your spelling is not bad, it's more like you need help with grammer. j/k.

Your life doesn't suck, so stop thinking that way. There are more people in the world going through harder times, but they still don't complain. All I'm saying is be stronger. Bogging yourself down will just make it harder for you to think or comprehend the situation.

My advice, let her go and do the uttermost best to move on. Don't let her be a burden to your life. Stay strong, live strong, and don't let mishaps shut you down.

You still got more life to live. So don't make it suck.

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Mudvayne wrote:i just found out i dont have A BABY KNOW MORE took DNA TEST TURNS OUT IT AINT MINE THATS ALL I HAD. WUT TO DO. MY MIND IS SO MEST UP. HAS ANYONE BEEN THRUE THIS
Lets see if I can help interpret that sentence.

" I just found out that I don't have a baby any more. I took a DNA test and it turns out it isn't mine and that's all I had. What should I do? My mind is so messed up. Has anyone ever been through this? "

If my interpretation is correct here it sounds almost like you can't have any more kids or something? And like the others said that could be a good thing depending on your perspective.

There are more fish in the sea. Dump her for cheating (assuming that she was somehow committed to you) and go find you another one.

edit- That didn't quite sound right, it could be a good thing if it isn't yours; not that you can't have any more kids (if that is the case). <me

kthx

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My internet humor detector is confused. I am getting a reading of mild sarcasm mixed with anger and awkwardness?

I would speak with Looney about stuff like this, he's the king of odd relationships.

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laugh in the *****'s face and don't pay child support.

THEN use this story as a sob story at the bar and score

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id be prayin it wasnt mine. My friend did the same thing with this girl at 19. they were together like a month, wanted to run away together, and decided to have a kid 3 months into it . Now he hates her and shes such a bicth. I tried tellin him its way to early that he doesnt even know her but nooooooo!!..dont make the same mistake

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frapjap wrote:Pour some gasoline, light a match, and carelessly drop it on that bridge and burn it. Sanitize yourself of that ish man.
im with you on this on ray

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Ummm..... Ide be happy if that happened while im 19 since your window of opportunity is opening the gateways to huge opportunities!!! Since your ripe out of the relationship stick to work or school which ever your doing. I was struggling with my carrier until i was with my X gf of 2 years... i Dumped her because i didn't trust her and she was holding me back. Now im doing great with my carrier because im able to focus and im with new chicks all the time.... Refer to drive in theaters thread and just look. Im 19 too right now and im going to turn 20 at July 24th so break up wise we are around the same age i understand how you feel Just get over it and forget her since she wasn't good enough any way

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Ditch the B i tch........ Short and simple. How would she handle the same situation in reverse?

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spec-bre wrote:Ditch the B i tch........ Short and simple. How would she handle the same situation in reverse?
if they had a baby and it didn't turn out to be hers.... I bet she would juts be really really freaked out...

I am with all the "This is a good thing".... your 19, If it was you kid you gotta suck it up and take care of it.... but damn does that put some huge roadblocks in the way of actually being successful.

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Dude, I'm also 19. Why the **** do you want a kid? Do you have any idea how hard it is to raise a child at that age? My parents had me when they were 18. It was hard as hell to raise me at such a young age. Now, I turned out fine and everything worked itself out, but that doesn't mean it always works that way.

And aside from the fact that it would be difficult raising a child on the small wages I'm assuming you make like most every other 19 year old, the ***** cheated on you. Why the **** do you want a kid that isn't yours and a whore who will probly cheat on you again? Now, it would be different had you raised the kid for 15 years and THEN found out he/she's not yours. But that's not the case. Run. Run away fast. Find a new chick, get married for a few years and then, when your financially stable and can AFFORD to bring a life into this world, have a child.

Mudvayne
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well a 3 day drinking binge fix my problem. im over it i think. now i just got to get my life together and, figure out if i should go to school or get a job. dam small towns suck

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If you do choose to stick around, watch out, you will probably be on the hook for child support. I'd bail now!

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i don't know what to say....

Hope you can clear your head from all that n know everything happens for a reason.

I hope the baby was healthy!

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A good buddy of mine broke up with his girl for a month and a half. she called him almost two months later pregnant after a month long tweak binge.

I haven't seen him in a year, he sold his 240sx... well he blew the motor and threw it away actually (much like his 300zx) but my point is if you want to enjoy your life then do so and leave procreation to when your ready, stable, and mentally prepared for the risks/consequences/joys/sorrows/stress.

also... **** that *****.


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