How many of you are in relationships?

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And even if you're not looking for a relationship and just want some ***. Only sure way is get em drunk!

*hides from Vicki and HKC*


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JustinStrife wrote:You must not live in California, Bubba1. Here you can't understand what they're thinking or what their intentions are, cause they haven't figured that out either. Depends on alot of things really when trying to figure out the opposite sex. California = bad karma for relationships for alot of people.
Hmmmm. You're right, I'm a northeasterner. But I disagree with you. I think geography just adds a little flavor to the puzzle. I found the southern women I dated more traditional in general their attitudes than northeastern women, but it was clearly not that way in every case. Each woman has their own way of thinking, interests or intentions, which makes it both fascinating and frustrating for us "logical" thinking guys.

Women all over the world hook up with guys, even get married. California is no exception. What I'm saying is, it's not necessarily the women that don't know what they want,, it could just as easily be the guy not investing the effort to find out what it is. Think about it.

Dang, I feel like Dr. Phil...thy (snicker) How 'bout some views from female NICOnauts






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Strangest thing ever is a southern woman with a strong sense of independence... can't ever make the right move.

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I'm a northeastern guy engaged to an eastern chick... eastern europe (ukraine).

I'm one of those good guys that, as the saying goes, is taken.:-)

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Well guys, count me out of the relationship column now...

Easily the least fun Halloween weekend, ever.

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I spent my Halloween writing a paper and watching The Gilmore Girls (Lauren Graham > *)Guinness is on sale though!

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Thought I'd make an update to what I posted earlier in this thread. I called it off with my g/f tonight. It wasn't a huge arguement or anything of the sort. Our lives are taking two different directions right now and it wasn't working out. It got to the point where the relationship was pointless. Even though I'm the one that called it off, it was hard to throw 4 years down the drain like that. I know it was the right thing to do, and she somewhat agrees but why does what was right feel so wrong? I have that snot clot in my throat right now ready to release it....

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well I checked with my wife and she said I was in a relationship

We have a lot in common, it`s really bizarre, sample conversation;

Mad; Some guy in a Honda wanted to race me on the way home. I cooked his ***, he went down like a buster.

Mrs. Mad; did it look like this with this plate number?

Mad; Yeah, how did you know?

Mrs. Mad; I tore him up last week, chump should learn how to shift or get an automatic or something.

She makes me so proud

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Now thats what I need. I mean my ex did things like that, but I want a girl that is into cars as much as I am if not more. I never let that snot clot go by the way

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Mad you're one luck sob. What I would do for a girl like that.

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I dunno about having a GF/wife who iscar crazy as being so important. Wouldn;t you rather have your wife simply hand over her bonus check and say, "here honey, use this to buy that 350Z you wanted and enjoy it at the track with your buddies..."

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Bubba1 wrote:I dunno about having a GF/wife who iscar crazy as being so important. Wouldn;t you rather have your wife simply hand over her bonus check and say, "here honey, use this to buy that 350Z you wanted and enjoy it at the track with your buddies..."
Two words: Good Call.

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Haven't read most of y'alls responses, sooo anyways

Cliffs notes version:Lived next door to cute blonde girl for 1 1/2 years w/o talkin to her (little conversations every now and then)I finally decide that I should really get to know her a little more.after a little bit, I'm at her house everyday, from afterschool til about 9:30 at night (she was my next door neighbor, sometimes I"d hop over her fence into her pool)Eventually, I really do know she likes me, I ask her out 2 days before school is out for summer. Over the course of the summer, we "explore" each other and what not. Now its November and we're still going out. 6 months. I had to move before school began (to an apt) and is the reason why I haven't been getting on NICO too much (only for a little bit longer). hmm, heres what I like about her personality and what not: very sweet/kind, plays video games (Halo, NFSU, GT3), into cars/ drifting (she used to want a lifted F150 or some bs like that, I showed her the light), into just about the same kind of movies I'm into.Physically: blonde hair, blue eyes, big rack, cute butt, nice thighs, cute feet (dont ask) and 5'6".

She's just about perfect for me and am not planning to let her go anytime soon. Hmm, ask Nismo Freak (Alan) he saw her just last weekend if any of y'all care. (Will post some pictures of her soon, probably when she sings up for NICO) and thats about it = )


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Hi guys. Sorry for the offtopic and for a very strange topic, but I have a question for you. The fact is that in college I study the issue of generation of millenials and how they build relationships in the 21st century. I wanted to ask you how effective dating is on the Internet? Who using online dating sites found his wife for example? I would be very grateful for the answers.

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Bladebringer wrote:
Sun Aug 11, 2019 11:35 am
Hi guys. Sorry for the offtopic and for a very strange topic, but I have a question for you. The fact is that in college I study the issue of generation of millenials and how they build relationships in the 21st century. I wanted to ask you how effective dating is on the Internet? Who using online dating sites found his wife for example? I would be very grateful for the answers.
Just curious as to whom is asking? Dmitry? Janice? Mitch? mistermoo? Or one of the other fake profiles you use???

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Sweet baby Satan, it's a zombie Vicki thread. I have PTSD now.

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According to my wife, I am in a relationship. According to my girlfriend I am not.

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ba-dah-dum...tish.. Holy zombie thread. Then there's the ever popular "I didn't realize until after I married Ms. Right, that her first name was "Always"...

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I have been with my wife now for 43 years. I am not one of those people who clucks his tongue at those who avoid relationships, avoid marriage, can't seem to make them work. or are not in a relationship for whatever reason. I don't judge people that way. Being married is hard work, and it's not for everybody. It's enough that you can make yourself and another person happy, even for a little while. It's why we're on this planet.

I will say this: If you do commit to marriage, make damn sure that it's what you want to do -- because you''re going to make some pretty heady promises to your SO, and in front of some pretty important people -- like your parents, perhaps, their parents, maybe -- but important folks who are close to you. If you are a person who believes in the strength of your word, DON'T make those promises if you do not intend to keep them. Stay single instead. It'll keep you from s*** all over some nice people -- maybe even including yourself. Maybe even your kids.

I made those promises 43 years ago, to her, her mom, her dad (who was the minister, BTW), her siblings, my mom and dad, my siblings, and some 150 other people in that church. So I had to be sure. It is a big-a** commitment, and one has gotta take it seriously. I was still pretty damned scared. Hell, I was only 22. And from the beginning, we were challenged every day.

Anyway, here we are, still together. Two grown kids, and 2 adorable little granddaughters, and I'm really glad that we made it work. No, it was not easy, but worth all the blood sweat, etc.

Now, she has stage 4 lung cancer, so we are facing the biggest challenge ever in our marriage. But neither of us is giving up, even though it's pretty scary. I don't know what I will do without her, but I cannot think of that. I have to focus on her getting well. So far she has responded well to the treatments -- better than either of us could have hoped -- so things are looking pretty dang good.

Saying those vows turned out to be the best decision I ever made. For us? Worth it!

Happy new year to all of you.

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57 years and three children.

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Jesus, this place just turned into Dr. Phil.

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Rogue One wrote:
Sun Aug 11, 2019 7:52 pm
Just curious as to whom is asking? Dmitry? Janice? Mitch? mistermoo? Or one of the other fake profiles you use???
BOOM! :nono:

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Squiggles wrote:
Thu Dec 26, 2019 8:16 am
According to my wife, I am in a relationship. According to my girlfriend I am not.
:rotfl

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Old saw. "Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker."

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Sometimes it's pretty hard to stay in the serious relationships.

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Met mama in a bar in Yokosuka, Japan Oct 1999. Married in June of 2001.
Together for 21 years, married 19 and have 3 kids and now a cat.

How she puts up with me has me so very confused. LOL

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Nice, we need pics.

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Wow, a thread so old, my truck was brand new when it was made.
I didn't recognize myself in that post I did, lol. Also, still not married yet cause each time I choose one I really like, sh*t always goes sideways. I think I have horrible taste in women.

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I am in a long-distance relationship for six months now.

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Lauren Graham is still kinda hot


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