kjselv wrote: I cannot afford to take the car to a shop so please all adivce would be wonderful.
Well, if that is true, and your husband doesn't have a lift, airtools, some good diagnostic equipment, your car is on a death watch. Some things are just better if done by dealer or specialized and knowledgeable shop.
Now, to the most apparent problem at hand.
How does the fuel pump sound? Most likely cause of failure you described. If it has been noisey for awhile, and makes no noise now, then it and your FPCM may be dead. Both can be replaced with minimal care and some skill.
I doubt the fuel filter is original, as they are scheduled for change every 30K miles. Annually is a better frequency. If true, then there may be a lot not right with the fuel system.
Why dont' you get the service records from your sister and the dealer and update us a little bit on its service history? It will help us immensely.
Welcome to ur club, and please do some reading starting in the articles forum in your spare time. It will help you ask the right questions by describing the problems with sufficient and accurate information. It will also help you understand what is required of an owner to keep your car in the best and safest running condition.
This post might be moved by a moderator to the Infiniti Mechanics Forum, so look there if it is not here when you return.