Parts stores rely on the aftermarket manufacturers for cross-reference info, and as y'all found out, that info isn't always right. The most infamous head-scratcher in that regard is probably the transmission filters for the RE0F09 CVT's in the Muranos and Maximas. There was a change in pan depth between the early models (deep, finned-aluminum pan) and later models (shallow, stamped-metal pan), but for a long time, a great many parts store catalogs showed the same "deep" filter for both. Unfortunately, if the person installing it didn't notice the depth disparity, that put the pickup jammed against the stamped pan and completely starved the pump of fluid. Result: New filter = Car doesn't move.
Trust your eyeballs. If it looks different, it probably is different.
