sbird1 wrote:All of you guys that are bashing the hell out of these kids with no remorse... that's fukced up. You guys can't tell me you havn't done something stupid when you were younger that could have potetially killed you or someone else. I know I have, but I've been lucky. It sucks for their families, friends, and community and is a tragedy. The kids weren't using their heads fully but they were hanging out and had a bad idea. Inexperience and bad judgement are to blame here, but no one is perfect. Lay off them.
Lameo.
Kids under the age of 20 are stupid, plain and simple. They think they are indestructible and are god like in their cat like reflexes and driving ablities. I see it all the time on forums just like this one.
Because of that thinking pattern of teenagers ("I'm a god and nothing can hurt me"), parents have a responsibility to give their kids tools that they can't abuse or can't abuse much.
In other words, you don't give your kid a farking Corvette before he even graduates highschool and say "Here you go son! Have a good one!!". There is a very strong chance that the kid will either get killed or wreck the car. Much stronger than say if you gave the kid a 1997 Kia Sephia.
For the record, I never gave my kids any cars, they had to go out and buy one. One time, I did let one of my kids drive my old Chrysler (nothing fancy) and sure enough, he totaled it. Part of the reason why he totaled it was he had no vested interest in the car so he just didn't care. He had a car load of friends and was probably showing off at the time.
So do I feel bad for the kid? I will tell you this, I feel bad for the parents. I feel bad that the parents are going to be feeling very guilty for the rest of their lives that they gave their kid a feeling of empowerment like no other. What does that mean? That means that the parents thought that they were just being "cool parents" and doing the "cool thing" by giving Junior the keys to a Vette. "Oh wow, Dear, just imagine how popular Junior will be if we give him a Corvette to drive while he is in high school." "Yes, honey, that is a swell idea, lets give him a Corvette so he can be sewper popular in school!"
Sure enough, Junior gets the keys to the Vette, and races and kills himself and some innocent passenger (who probably had an opportunity to get out of the car if they so desired before the race).
It sucks for the parents but they were the ones that empowered the kids with the choice of tools they gave them.
I don't feel bad for the kid, I feel bad for everyone else.
And the sad sick thing that is going to happen now is that the kid will become martyred now. He will be looked upon with reverence and awe as the "boy that died too young" or some other cliche. Hell him and his passenger might even get a dedication page in their yearbook. The timing is rather bad for that though (didn't happen during school year) so that might not happen.
Am I a cold hearted bastard? Maybe so but I'm also not one to mince words when it comes to stupidity at the hands of a child.
No sympathy for the victims. I do feel bad for the parents. Community? Why would the community care other than they have another mess to clean up. Maybe the kid's friends might learn something from this event.