What does being in new jersey have to do with anything? If you're suggesting because of its northern geographic location that the temperatures in the summer time are cold enough to promote tailpipe steam in the mornings, then that's kind of silly. I live in CT, and last I checked that was even farther north than New Jersey.. and my car's tailpipe doesn't emit steam in the mornings until well into October.
and no, obviously merely starting the car won't blow a head gasket. They go bad over time. Being a "worst scenario" kind of guy, I'm suggesting that it isn't unreasonable to think that one of his last trips out that a bit of head gasket may have finally deteriorated enough and that while parked the pressurized cooling system forced a bit of antifreeze into one of the cylinders, which is causing the smoke and is now lending itself as a path for combustion gasses to go which may drop psi on one cylinder to cause the rough drivability.
but like i said, I'm not specifically an optimist.
Modified by Neil at 12:51 AM 8/14/2008