manipulation?

[nametakennow]

"All women are kniving *****es." - best friend's mom

Right, I'm not ranting about women this time. I'm just curious as to what you guys think is going on.

Yesterday I was at work and T calls (T=female interest). She's all happy cause she's playing soccer and doing quite well. Apparently college scouts are/were talking to her at this tournament. Anyways, so they won their first game and blah blah blah. She's a happy camper, that's the point, so I'll move on.

She calls me again later and asks if there's any way she can see me that night (last night), I said I didn't really think so, seeing as I was going to be at my aforementioned best friend's house that night. They live near each other, but I believed she was staying with her aunt up here near where I live that night. Anyways, she has the rest of the tournament to play (today) so she couldn't be out late last night.

Apparently she decided to go home, near where my friend lives.

She calls and asks again if there's any way she can see me and sounds really distraught. So I ask her what's up.

Her story:Apparently, some guy she beat in a race (yup, in her s***zoid early 90's -auto- Grand Am) last week saw her on the road and started trying to get her to race again (he drives a Mustang and is apparently a tool, I'll let you guys make that connection). Anyways, she was tired from soccer and just wanted to go home, so she said no. He continued egging her on.

Well, a few miles down the road he's messing with her and stuff and starts bumping her rear bumper. Jack***? Yes. Then apparently he bumped her pretty nicely and she slid off the road, narrowly missing a ditch and a house (going right between them) into a field. He takes off. She picks grass out of her bumper and goes home, pissed to all hell.

She then asks if I can come over there real quick to see her and be captain comforting. Calm her down a bit, that kind of thing.

I say I don't know, I'll see what I can come up with.

She calls again and says "well, at least I can talk to you." Then yells at her dog cause he won't shut up. I ask, "Can't you tell your dad or your bro to take care of him?" She says she's home alone. Fishy? Yes. Cruely enticing? Definitely.

Eventually, I get fed up with having her all down and whatnot and figure I'll take the chance and run over there (I was supposed to be at my friend's house all night, nowhere else- parent mandate).

I get there and she does the classic "wrap your arms around his neck and lay your head on his chest to feel protected" maneuver. And a few other tricks that were borderline cruel and unusual punishment via blueballs.

Anyways, her dad will apparently be home 20 minutes later, so we hang out for a few minutes then she tells me I have to go, and that I ought to have come sooner (cough).

Right, so to the point here. Was that story just a tool to get me to come over? Moreover, why? Home alone, late at night, barely dressed... it honestly sounds a bit fishy.

I honestly think she exaggerated her story, but since when did a girl try that hard to get a guy to come over while she's alone?

It's kinda hard to explain my thought process without getting into silly details, but basically I wonder if she was looking to do something or was honestly in need of comfort... though how often does someone in need of comfort straddle someone else on a couch?

I hate being lied to and manipulated, that's what my ex did, so if that story was fabricated, all hell will rain down, fire and brimstone, even a *****-slap from Jesus himself. She tries to guilt trip me a lot, but only in the past few days... when she does, I hang up on her and she apologizes. I'm going to find out where she was run off an send my friend over to look (I live about a half hour away from both of them)... I'm sure I sound paranoid and overly suspicious, but as of late she reminds me so much of my exgf that it's driving me nuts.

"I don't understand high-maintenance people." - same friend's chick friend... yes, apparently chicks have themselves figured out.

Wow, I think I've confused even myself now... if you need clarification on something, just ask.

[PalmerWMD]

I think you should have come over earlier.

Fred..:naughty

[nametakennow]

I kicked myself all night for that part .

[Axel Grungy]

i dunno thats a pretty elaborate story to just make up, but who knows she could be making it up. but i would say no, but i dont know her. haha i know im a real help. but man i wish i had your prob lol

[SeVa-S13]

I believe "manipulation" can be directly translated into "missed opportunity for booty because scared of parents" in this case. You're young, it's your god-given right to to stupid things like piss off your parents and go "comfort" hot females that are home alone and desire your company.

[nametakennow]

True. I ought to have gone sooner, and I realize that. However, if that's what she wanted, wouldn't it have been smart to tell me she was home alone sooner?

edit: She's also very outspoken against premarital sex. Her parents had her before they were married. They were lucky because they actually loved each other. Anyways, she's very against it for a few reasons, but every single bit of that lends itself towards skipping even "just" fooling around.

soccer shorts + sport bra= very little left to the imagination

edit 2: My head would be rolling on the floor, blood spurting out of the neck of my carcass if my parents caught me doing something major. Mom flipped out bad enough from a hickey and a questionable-looking situation in my basement with my ex over A YEAR AGO and she still hasn't fully recovered.

[Nathan]

What on EARTH were you thinking? You should have at least gone over to check on things when she first called and said she got ran off the road. Besides, you could have figured out if it was bull**** or not. You silly man.

[Mr1der]

I gotta agree with Fred on that one....

Sounds to me like she was trying to make a booty call without being blatantly blunt about it.

NEWSFLASH FOR WOMEN!!!!! BE BLUNT ABOUT IT! WE THINK IT'S EVEN HOTTER!

[nametakennow]

NEWSFLASH FOR WOMEN!!!!! BE BLUNT ABOUT IT! WE THINK IT'S EVEN HOTTER!

Seriously, put that line on CNN.

I like the subtlety, but damn, SAY YOU'RE HOME ALONE.

Oh, and I couldn't go check on things before she got run off the road, I was at work, then I went straight to my friend's house before I even knew she was going to be at her's that night. She was still up in Atlanta at her soccer tourney when I got to his house.

[jdmfreak]

Is this the same girl you went to the movies with? Or is it yet another one? You have too many girl problems for some1 your age.

[nametakennow]

Umm... you mean the one that said best friend apparently set up without telling me back in July? Yeah, that one.

She's cool stuff. Clingy as hell sometimes though. And well... soccer players... mmmm.... soccer players... but yeah...

Guess the parody-"Cause I'm blue,blue ballin'"

[AZhitman]

Win - I sent you a PayPal to your NTN address (did you get it?)

[nametakennow]

I guess I ought to have replied! Sorry about that, yeah, I got it. Well, I think. I got a receipt email, but my ntn address isn't tied into the paypal account. We'll take a look at it tonight and see if it found it's way, if not, I'll tell you which address it ought to have been sent to.

[jdmfreak]

Umm... you mean the one that said best friend apparently set up without telling me back in July? Yeah, that one.

She's cool stuff. Clingy as hell sometimes though. And well... soccer players... mmmm.... soccer players... but yeah...

Guess the parody-"Cause I'm blue,blue ballin'"

Yup thats who I was talkin about.

[nametakennow]

I need a damn womanspeak translator. Then I would have known that "I want to see you and I'm really tired and feeling bad" means "come over and le's getiton!"

::kick kick kick::

Next time for this kind of chance happening to open up this kind of opportunity= probably a really long time.

[jdmfreak]

LOL! Sucks

[nametakennow]

SOCCER PLAYER BOOTY...

Let's face it gentlemen, I friggin' lose.

[The Mic]

well i would have siad "sry i cant, ill call you later to see if ur ok " or something like that. If shes interested in you itll happen again =]

[jdmfreak]

SOCCER PLAYER BOOTY...

Let's face it gentlemen, I friggin' lose.

There WILL be another opportunity for you to take your ball to the goal. Just give it time. If she wants you, she's gonna try again.

[skydragoness]

from a woman's p-o-v:

I'll tell you that women are guilty of dropping hints and expecting the guy to figure it out. Hints don't work with guys, at least--from what i've learned and have been told by other guys. You have to say it. And of course, i'll never learn to come right out and say it. I'm pretty shy when it comes to asking for something.

[Sircnay]

*shakes head* Should've hit and run that stuff right thurrrrrrrrrrrrraaarrraarreeere.

[180fan]

shouldda unleashed a fatty boner so big it shredded your pants and porked her savage on the couch man. I don't want to know if you did, but if you were in a right state of mind, you wouldda if she were hot and if you were jonesin' for it.

[Rockenreno]

I'll tell you that women are guilty of dropping hints and expecting the guy to figure it out. Hints don't work with guys, at least--from what i've learned and have been told by other guys. You have to say it. And of course, i'll never learn to come right out and say it. I'm pretty shy when it comes to asking for something.

This makes me wonder if guys really don't get hints or girls just really suck at giving hints. Maybe its that whole Venus/Mars thing... all I know is I can't understand women, they're all insane, but at the same time that might be what attracts me to them

Well, that and some choice body parts

[nametakennow]

I usually get hints, believe it or not. In fact, I can almost say I understand enough womanese to get around that country. But dang, I was just cold on that one.

Check this:

She says she thought I knew she was home alone. DOH!

Ahh, and this girl is quite taken with me, not to seem conceited, I just dunno how else to describe it... no worries about "if she's interested." The larger worry is getting the right circumstances again. We live ~30min apart, go to different schools, and both have very very very protective parents, so...

[jdmfreak]

Sooooo.....That makes it even more rewarding. You've not only beat your parents, but you also got laid too.

[MainEvent212]

dude, lemme give u a word of advice...

to be protective and jealous can be cute from a girl's point of view

to be crazy and act like a jealous FREAK are very not good...trust me on this one, i know, i crossed the line once...it didnt not end well

just so you know? i get laid nearly every day by a girl who didnt believe in pre-marital sex...ya dig? ooohhh yeaaaahhhh :pface

[Altiman94]

kid you are whipped by your parents like you wouldn't believe. If the girl was truly distraut you should have been over there right away instead of blowing her off like you do.

[[Zero-S]]

Winston, if you think twice about it next time I will personally come down there and smack you. Case closed.