Remember shocks have 4 different stiffness rates:Fast and slow piston movement and compression and rebound.FSM only lists compression and rebound rates at ONE RATE OF CHANGE1.00 foot per sec or 6" per 500 milliseconds*
No one said anything about different springs just different SLOW REBOUND RATE and FAST COMPRESSION RATES
Humans cannot cycle a new shock from full compressed to rebound [expanded] in 1/2 second...........most non weight lifting champs cannot do it with a 60k worn out unit in 1/2 second or even 1 second.
Springs or shocks over a common small [+-20%] range don't have much if anything to do with handling just the ride comfort.
Shocks just slow down the storage or release TIME of spring energy.
SO TIME is the key here.
I forgot the THIRD factor shocks have another valve which compensates for the changes in viscosity of fluid to reduce the variances caused from single bumps vs multiple bumps over a short period.
Winter shocks vs Summer Shocks would be a hassle for most so the compromise is never right just tolerable!
* Take some time and calculate the shape of a speed bump/pothole that would exercise the FRONT shock in the time period specified at different road speeds.
Assume the tire has a 1200 inch/pound side wall stiffness, everything else is given in the FSM for early Q
http://www.proshocks.com/calcs/2spgrate.htmshows that 146 spring + 1200 tire = 130 pound inch effective spring not counting rubber top spring seat. Use 125 as a good guesstimate
note that a [73worn-112new] front shock COMPRESSION is 73/125 - 112/125 or 58%- 89% as stiff as the front effective spring/tire/mount rate
AND 165/125 - 223/125 or 132% - 178% STIFFER than the effective spring in EXPANSION [rebound] control.
So under an ideal bump the shock SLOWS the compression by 75% and SLOWS the return to normal ride height [rebound] by 155% or twice as much...............this is no accident of mathematics.