Hey Dave, good meeting you today. Just following up, here is a link to the Factory Service Manuals:
http://www.nicoclub.com/FSM/M/2012/2012%20M/
For anyone following along the upper radiator hose is hot, lower radiator hose was cool, and the heater hoses warm after driving so I suspect thermostat. While that's apart I would disconnect heater hoses at the bulkhead where the battery is on non-hybrids and pour distilled through a funnel to see if it flows freely (make sure it was set to heat when turning car off).
At the same time I would investigate the blend door possibility too. The FSM should help locate it and it should be an easy check.