finally got! both sides light up when any door opens.
#1 - Driver LED power to terminal 31 of SECU
#2 - Driver LED ground to red/black located in driver door plunger
#3 - Passenger LED power to driver LED power
#4 - Passenger LED ground to red/yellow (99% sure) located in passenger door plunger
#5 - Whatever you do, do not ground to the black
ran wires up by door entry and just used electrical tape to hold it

ran ground underneath the ledge all the way to door plunger. plunger just has one screw, remove that and be careful of a washer dropping. disconnect the plug so you can pull it out to get access to splice the wires. i popped out the plastic cover from inside and just held it far enough so i can get access to the wires. there's 3 wires to ground with. make sure not to ground with black.


once you're done tapping, put it all back together. at this point, the lights should stay on and will only turn off if all doors are closed.

