Ha...my car was FAR from abused. I bought it from the second owner who purchased it as an off-lease in 2002 with 39K. They are both retired, live in a $300K house with a river view outside Chattanooga.
It stayed garaged it's entire life and his wife drove it most of the time to her job as a hospital administrator. Oil change sticker said it had just been done 1K before I bought it and the records went as far back as they owned it. It also had a handicapped tag on it.
So..no...aren't playing the "bought a poor abused Infiniti" card.
I didn't think an Infiniti and a VH41 should smoke at extended idle either but this one does even though the engine is clean as whistle inside. Plenty of power and runs whisper quiet but it likes it's oil. If you guys can stand to watch it I can make a video of it
There's no suspension switch on this car. Must be another year you are thinking of. There's a switch blank there but no switch. Never was. It's stiff because it's a Touring and it had to be better than a base model.