TrippiN22 u are definitely not trippin... pun intended.
I have been to the dealer for 3 service visits in the last 3 years and 30k miles.
My boyfriend does all the oil+filter changes u can see from a previous post(s) of mine on here.
As for intake air filters - Pop the hood and take a look. We have dual intake and dual exhaust. Not sure if the exhaust is "true dual" all the way back because I don't look under there but the intake is easy for a lightweight gearhead girl like me to see once u pop the hood.
Now as for service "packages". We had our plan worked out for maximum longevity of the car:
Changed the transmission fluid by 20k miles - the service advisor looked at me like I was crazy I told them to change it anyway.
Changed also power steering fluid by 20k miles.
Changed transfer case oil and differential oil + coolant by 36k miles.
Just flushed my brakes at little over 36k miles when we changed my braking system. Mine were at 3 years since flush. It should be 2yrs but most mechanics will say 3 is okay.
Basically service what u want and can afford or stick to the "recommended" schedule and be prepared for HUGE shocks to your wallet as things break or become due.