Thank you Guys for your reply;
@ PapaSmurf2k3 unfortunately yes i did drive the car after the flash, i didnt feel any problem with the shifting, however there would be a 5 - 10 seconds delay when i put it into D from P with a clicking sound, it was normal in reverse though. and then every thing but the reverse just went haywire all of a sudden, but reverse remained normal. i did rev it to go into gear when it didnt respond on the traffic light, so now i am guessing i must have lost the pressure in the transmission for one reason or the other, and when i reved it for the few hundred meters to go onto the side of the road it would move slowly .
i do know that the valve body, the clutches, steel plates, seals and the converter where all changed, i am not sure about the TCU though i have a followup check (since it is under warranty) the mechanic asked me to pass by for a check this week) i will ask him about the tcu.
i only see a plug, but no dipstick, i did try to sniff it
but the engine was too hot to get too close i will wait till tomorrow morning and give it a try.
@ audatious there are no codes showing, the only code that was stored is when i disconnected the power, at that time hoping that it was just an ecu reset issue.
i am planning to driving it under very heavy traffic with a lot of stop and go this week before i take it to the transmission shop and see where that is going to take me.
i will keep you guys posted.
and thanks again for your reply and assistance