I'm in the parts department at Infiniti of Springfield, MO so I handle this stuff on a regular basis. Keep in mind the adviser you talk to on the service drive is basically just a salesman and usually knows about as much about vehicles as the average car salesman, he is not a trained technician. As far as I'm aware, the 60K service we do here should be pretty much the same for Infiniti's across the board, there may be some differences dealer-dealer, but Infiniti is pretty strict about how they want their vehicles serviced. With that being said I'm not sure what he's smoking cause I'm about to paraphrase what our maintenance brochure says for a 60K service. This is what your maintenance guide would refer to as "premium maintenance" so you may not want to do everything on the list, but its definitely beneficial.
Engine emission service: This is the "Carbon chamber" thing he was talking about I think. He should have said throttle body service (Nissan/Infiniti manuals call the throttle body a throttle "chamber") Basically the tech will scrub the thing with carb cleaner and a toothbrush. This is important as too much carbon buildup can play hell with throttle mechanism and Spoiler Alert: fly-by-wire throttle chambers aren't cheap to replace... The emissions service also includes a new air filter, new PCV valves and a fuel injector cleaning.
Fan belt service: belts are inspected and replaced as necessary.
Transmission service: 60K is your first recommended trans fluid flush. Differential gear oil and transfer case (if your car is AWD) fluids are recommended every 30K, so this goes on your 60K too obviously. With having mostly highway driving, you can probably go longer (90-105) on your fluids, but we recommend them just to be safe. Oddly the maintenance guide recommends they be "inspected" every 30-60-90. Not sure how you "inspect" trans or diff fluid without draining it and refilling it lol... there are no dipsticks.
In cabin air filter: self explanatory
Wiper blades: simple enough
Coolant flush: Recommendation starts at 60K for premium service at my dealership but as audtatious posted schedule 2 is 105K. We also replace the radiator cap at this time.
Power steering and brake fluid flushes: self explanatory
Rotate/rebalance tires: At our shop we actually do take the wheels/tires off and throw them on the balancer when we do the rotation every 15K.
Alignment: G's are already pretty hard on tires with perfect alignment so I wouldn't skip this one. Not saying you need to have it done every 15K like the premium schedule says, but definitely at 60K and anytime you get new tires.
Oil and filter change: pretty obvious
That's the whole service, as you can see, spark plugs are NOT included. We recommend them on the 90K service as they are designed to go 90-120K miles (that's why the damned things cost $30 a piece
) The 90K is basically all the 60K stuff plus the spark plugs. Spark plugs on schedule 2 service are at 105K Also not sure what he's getting at with the thermostat housing. It does include the thermostat itself (its all one piece) but its not a normally serviced part as far as I'm aware. Your dealership may recommend it as a preventative maintenance item I guess. Not sure why they would lean towards that and not all the (more important) drivetrain services I mentioned. Anyway that's the basic rundown, hope it helps you.